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The Song of the Siren: Shame
Feeling some surprising things today, a range of things. My husband made his post yesterday and I went to bed feeling weird. I had this sense of “wait, are we really doing this?” A part of me was just messing around. But if it’s both of us….is this for real? Earlier in the day he Continue reading
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Teams and Jerseys
Last month I posted about getting along with other Christians, and what I’ve experienced as a Mormon when others were suspicious of me. I’ve been thinking more about this. Are Mormons and Christians really at odds? Jeff at Hello Saints (actually I don’t remember if it was Jeff himself or a guest on his Summit) Continue reading
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The Spouse’s Perspective
If you prefer to listen instead, a conversation covering much of the same narrative can be found here: Hey there, A’s husband here. After reading her Untangling post the other day, I asked if I could add a guest post giving additional context and perspective. So here we go. As my wife mentioned in her Continue reading
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I Owe it All to Jesus
This is one of the songs that really struck me when I started attending The Well. My first few weeks, I was open to feeling but I was mostly thinking. I would watch the words on the screen and think seriously about the lyrics — because these lyrics are pretty different from the hymns I’m Continue reading
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Untangling
It was 4 months after I “found Jesus” and started going to my new church. My husband had been super concerned and weighed down about my change. He said he felt like the contract we made at marriage was being altered, and I wasn’t being true to the terms of the contract (Basically that we’d Continue reading
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What are Your Pronouns?
Mormons have this interesting habit of praying in modern English except for the second person pronouns for some weird mixed up reasons. What if I spoke to you in French except all the adjectives were in Portuguese? Yeah that would be weird. We are taught that saying “thee” and “thy” are respectful. Why is one Continue reading
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Smithereens and Anger
Last night, I was reading the appendix at the back of Lynn Wilder’s book Unveiling Grace. It’s great to see compilation all in one place about the Mormon doctrines that are contradicted in the Bible. Most of them I already knew. A lot of them I just rolled my eyes and I don’t care about, Continue reading
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Working Backwards: Apostasy & Keys
In LDS theology, we say that there is a cycle that has been repeated several times in the history of the world, each time being called a “dispensation.” A dispensation is when God manifests himself to a prophet, reveals doctrine, and establishes a church or group of followers. But inevitably, that church will into apostasy, Continue reading
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Relationship with Jesus
What’s your relationship with Jesus like? How do you develop that? In Relief Society (the women’s class at LDS church) about 10 years ago, this question was raised. I loved Jesus. I knew a lot about him. I tried to please Him and do what he would do. But an interactive relationship? I pondered this Continue reading